.But what Astrid does not understand however is a reality that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that possesses 2 children-- may attest to: The reality that your relationship along with your moms and dads changes and also advances as you each get older, as well as hopefully right. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they're babies [as well as] it is actually a great deal job but wonderful," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you actually miss out on that, because then you can't get all of them to perform anything you wish them to accomplish, since they start establishing their own thoughts, their personal point of views." And eventually, you end up in the spot O'Hara, whose boys are in their 20s and 30s, locates herself now, capable to profit from her kids. "They're merely such amazing youthful men," she states. "I'm not their friend, but I love having discussions with them as well as getting to know how they consider lifestyle.".